Anxiety Avoidance Cycle: Why Avoidance Feels Like Relief (and Makes Anxiety Bigger)
Avoidance is one of the most human responses to anxiety. If something feels scary, awkward, uncertain, or overwhelming, your brain offers a simple solution: 🚪…
Avoidance is one of the most human responses to anxiety. If something feels scary, awkward, uncertain, or overwhelming, your brain offers a simple solution: 🚪…
Some people don’t feel most anxious at night. They feel it the moment they wake up. Before any email.Before any conversation.Before anything “bad” happens. Just:😬…
Exposure is one of the most evidence-based ways to reduce anxiety. But many neurodivergent adults have had the experience of:😬 trying exposure🧱 getting overwhelmed🧊 shutting…
Masking is often described as “blending in.” But for many neurodivergent adults, masking is not a style choice.It’s a safety strategy. And it comes with…
Anxiety doesn’t always look like panic. Sometimes it looks like:🧊 silence🧱 freezing😶 blank mind🚫 inability to speak👀 staring🫥 numbness🧍 body heaviness And the worst part…
Your brain keeps looping.And you can’t tell what kind of loop it is. 🌀 Is it rumination?😬 Is it worry?⚡ Is it an intrusive thought?…
Reassurance seeking is one of the most misunderstood anxiety symptoms. Because it looks like:🧩 “I just want clarity.”🧩 “I just need to be sure.”🧩 “I…
Sometimes you feel anxious… but you’re not actually worried about anything. Your mind might be quiet.And still your body is in emergency mode: 💓 racing…
Autistic anxiety and social anxiety can overlap. But they aren’t the same thing. And if you use the wrong tools, you can end up feeling…
Burnout and anxiety often feel tangled. Because they feed each other. 😬 Anxiety increases pressure and threat scanning🔋 Burnout reduces capacity and tolerance🌪️ Overload becomes…